No relationship is perfect, but here's a list of goals for you and your hubby/boyfriend. If your partner in crime happens to be a Democrat (say it's not so), then this list may not be ideal for you. In fact, it might even start problems within your relationship once you start bleeding your red, white, and blue.
No. 1
Watch The News Together
It's important for every couple to stay informed. Sometimes your guy would rather play video games all night than watch The Kelly File or The O'Reilly Factor, but doing something together like watching Fox News once in awhile is great. Watching the news (whatever station) allows the two of you to start interesting conversations. You'll both learn where each other stands on policies and grow a deeper bond. Most of the time couples begin to get into a rut where you co-exist with one another, and the one way to prevent that is by finding ways to converse with one another.
No. 2
Share Funny YouTube Videos
My favorite YouTube channel it Louder with Crowder. Steven Crowder is hilarious and both my guy and I like watching the interviews from Crowder's podcasts. It doesn't have to be political, it can be anything. Another channel we sometimes watch is Prank vs. Prank, where a couple creates videos of them pranking each other back and forth. Being able to laugh together is important since you don't want it to get boring.
No. 3
Join Young Republicans
Joining your local Young Republicans Chapter allows the both of you to connect with other Republicans. It's a great way to network together as well and build lasting connections. One bonus of joining Young Republicans is meeting political candidates in your area as well as hearing from political philosophers. A lot of meetings have a bar, so if the two of you drink, think of it as a fun night out.
No. 4
Volunteer Together
Volunteering is a good act within itself, why not make it a habit to volunteer together. In the past I interned for a campaign solo, and met so many people. I always thought it would be something great for me and my guy to do together. At that time we were long distance because I moved for school, but once the opportunity arose to do it together, I seized it. We volunteered at a booth for the county fair registering voters. It turned out to be fun. We were able to spend time at the fair while doing a good deed. Soon we will be volunteering for the next Republican Presidential Candidate once we decide who we are backing. Although political based volunteering is fun, don't forget that there are so many charities who NEED extra hands, why not help them as well.
No. 5
Practice Good Manners
Today we live in a society where it's becoming rare for people to practice good manners. It always makes me cringe when I see someone let the door fall closed on an elderly person. It's not that difficult to open the door or wait a few seconds to hand it over to someone. Remind your guy that chivalry is important to you and you both should work together to be better people. Once it's time to start your own family this practice will be useful when raising your children to be productive citizens.
No. 6
Share your Faith
There's absolutely nothing wrong with having different faiths or no faith. However, if the two of you happen to be the same religion, then why not attend your place of worship together. Praying together, going to a church, mosque or synagogue, and discussing your faith could be a useful tool to a strong relationship. Having a constant reminder of what your values are, allows the two of you to uphold those values.
No. 7
Put a Ring on It
I'm not a huge fan of Beyonce's songs, but commitment is important. If you and your guy are serious, then you should put a ring on it (promise or engagement). Obviously if you're already married, you got this goal checked off your list already. Wearing something like a promise ring shows others you're already taken. It's also a good way to commit to each other and let each other know you are serious about tending to the relationship. Once the time comes when you can afford a wedding, then upgrade to an engagement ring (with a proposal of course). If he isn't willing to commit, then he isn't worth your time. The two of you might not have the same values. However, be practical on the time you wait, not everyone has love at first sight and is ready to get married. Will and Kate took at least ten years and look at them now.
No. 8
Respect Each Other
Thankfully Republican men tend to be more respectful than Democratic men, mainly because women are included in conversations. There aren't separate spheres, and women are included in on all topics rather than just women's health. Beyond political discussions, respecting each other in all facets of your relationship is important. Without listening to each other and tending to what each other needs, resentment will build. Remember that being in a relationship means your committed to your best friend, don't let anything affect the friendship.
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